FRIENDSHIP
Building and Maintaining Relationships
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Last Updated: January 5, 2026
CORE ARTICLES ON MAKING FRIENDS
How Can I Make Real Friends?
From: Questions Young People Ask: Answers That Work
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Key Topics Covered:
- Understanding what real friends are vs. counterfeit friends
- Finding friends who share your values
- An active interest in others
- The importance of being a good listener
- Being loyal to friends
- Sharing your feelings appropriately
- Not expecting perfection in friendships
Main Principles:
- Jesus Christ built strong friendships by genuinely caring for people
- Remembering people's names and taking genuine interest in them
- Listening attentively (Luke 8:18)
- Loyalty is a fundamental quality of true friendship (Proverbs 17:17)
- Revealing your deepest feelings gradually to trusted friends
- Friendship requires both giving and emotional investment
Satisfying Our Hunger for Friendship
Publication: Awake! Magazine
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Key Topics Covered:
- Taking practical steps toward friendship
- Opening your heart and being genuine
- The Golden Rule as foundation for friendship
- "To have a friend, be a friend"
- Showing respect for others
- Not being jealous or possessive
- Respecting friends' privacy (Proverbs 25:17)
Main Principles:
- Loneliness is a natural sign that we need companionship
- Isolating yourself makes loneliness worse
- Be yourself—putting on an act doesn't help friendships
- Real friendship is based on unselfish love (Golden Rule: Luke 6:31)
- Taking time is fundamental to finding and keeping friends
- Friends deserve time and attention
- Guard against wanting friends all to yourself; allow them other friendships
How to Make True Friendships
Publication: Awake! Magazine - February 2016
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Key Topics Covered:
- The challenge of maintaining meaningful friendships in the digital age
- Technology's impact on friendship depth
- Defining real friendship
- Establishing priorities (values over interests)
- Getting out and meeting people face-to-face
- The importance of writing letters
- The difference between online and offline friendships
Main Principles:
- Technology alone cannot maintain true friendships
- Real friendship requires love, empathy, patience, and forgiveness
- Offline relationships are more meaningful than online connections
- Face-to-face conversation allows observation of tone, expression, and body language
- Common values are more important than common interests
- A true friend "sticks closer than a brother" (Proverbs 18:24)
ARTICLES ON MAINTAINING FRIENDSHIPS
Build Strong Friendships Before the End Comes
Publication: The Watchtower Study Edition - November 2019
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Key Topics Covered:
- Learning from Jeremiah's example of friendship with Baruch
- Heart-to-heart communication
- Working together to strengthen bonds
- Focusing on the positive and being forgiving
- Showing loyal love in times of distress
- The eternal value of strong friendships
Main Principles:
- Open communication thrives in a warm atmosphere (Proverbs 27:9)
- Working together on meaningful projects strengthens friendships
- We become aware of friends' weaknesses when working closely with them
- We must forgive friends when they hurt us (Proverbs 17:9)
- A true friend is "loving all the time" and "born for times of distress" (Proverbs 17:17)
- Being there for friends during hardship is vital
- Strong friendships will endure through future trials
Maintaining Friendships in a Loveless World
Publication: The Watchtower - October 15, 2009
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Key Topics Covered:
- The foundation of good friendships (love for Jehovah)
- Taking the initiative (hospitality, inviting others)
- Widening out in affections
- Being loyal to friends
- When friendships need to end
- Good communication
- Giving and receiving counsel
- Forgiveness and maintaining bonds
Main Principles:
- The strongest friendships are founded on mutual love for God
- When Jehovah is the "third cord," a friendship will endure (Ecclesiastes 4:12)
- Good friendships are not formed by accident but by hard work
- Take the initiative in making friends through hospitality
- Widen your circle—friendships don't have to be limited by age
- Loyal friends defend each other and don't believe gossip
- Good friends give each other frank but gracious counsel
- Forgive completely and don't bring up old offenses (Colossians 3:13-14)
You Can Enjoy Lasting Friendships
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Key Topics Covered:
- Ensuring your friend knows you want to maintain the relationship
- The importance of sincere forgiveness (Colossians 3:13)
- Practical steps for friendship maintenance
What Makes a Good Friend?
Publication: Awake! Magazine - 2014
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Key Topics Covered:
- Commitment as a foundation
- Being a good communicator
- Regular communication importance
- Listening and respecting opinions
- Commending and encouraging friends
- Giving timely advice and correction
- Loyalty through difficulties
Main Principles:
- A good friend feels responsibility toward you and really cares
- True friendship requires commitment
- Communication can include both praise and tactful guidance
- A loyal friend has courage to point out serious faults
ADDRESSING LONELINESS & ISOLATION
Fight Loneliness—With Friendship: How the Bible Can Help
Topic Series: Bible Resources on Loneliness
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Key Topics Covered:
- Loneliness as a global health priority
- The role of small daily steps in relationships
- Bible principles to fight loneliness
- Being a good communicator and listener
- Widening your circle of friends
- The importance of genuine interest in others
Main Principles:
- Loneliness doesn't necessarily mean isolation—you can feel lonely in a crowd
- Small steps every day strengthen relationships
- Show interest in others' feelings and be a good listener
- Make friends with people of different ages and backgrounds
- Open your heart wide (2 Corinthians 6:13)
The Growing Affliction of Loneliness—What the Bible Says
Topic Series: Understanding Loneliness
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Key Statistics:
- About one in four people feels lonely
- Social isolation affects people of all ages and backgrounds
- Loneliness has serious physical and emotional health impacts
- "The mortality impact of being socially disconnected is similar to that caused by smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day" (U.S. Surgeon General)
The Loneliness Epidemic—How Can You Cope?
Topic Series: Overcoming Loneliness
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Key Topics Covered:
- Understanding the loneliness epidemic
- Reducing activities that isolate
- Engaging with people in person
- Making true friends
- Looking for opportunities to help others
Main Principles:
- Reduce excessive social media use
- Find occasions to engage with people in person
- Doing kind deeds for others strengthens relationships
- "There is more happiness in giving than in receiving" (Acts 20:35)
- A true friend shows love at all times (Proverbs 17:17)
You Can Conquer Loneliness
Publication: The Watchtower - March 15, 2002
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Key Topics Covered:
- Understanding various causes of loneliness
- Prayer as a means of support
- The Christian brotherhood as a resource
- Carrying burdens together
- Pursuing meaningful activities
- Giving and sharing as happiness-builders
How to Deal With Isolation and Loneliness
Topic Series: Mental Health and Relationships
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Key Topics Covered:
- Cultivating friendships for mental and emotional health
- Using technology to maintain connections when face-to-face is difficult
- Dealing with stress from isolation
- Building new friendships remotely
- The importance of being a true friend
Why Don't I Have Any Friends?
Category: Young People Ask (Teenager Focus)
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Main Principle:
- Don't keep feelings hidden; others likely feel the same way
DIGITAL RELATIONSHIPS & TECHNOLOGY IMPACT
How Does Technology Affect Your Friendships?
Publication: Awake! Magazine - July/August 2021
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Key Issues:
- People who primarily use technology show less empathy
- Social media can make people feel lonely and empty
- Technology can shift focus to self rather than others
- Scrolling through social media can create negative comparisons
Practical Solutions:
- Have more in-person conversations
- Put away/silence phones during conversations
- Cut back on social media scrolling
- Become a better listener
- Contact friends going through hard times
Do You Use Digital Technology Wisely?
Publication: Awake! Magazine - 2015
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Key Topics Covered:
- Digital addiction's impact on relationships
- How technology creates barriers between people
- Digital detox solutions
- Assessing your technology use
- Practical Bible principles
Help for the Family: Family Life and Friendships
Publication: Awake! Magazine - 2019
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Key Topics Covered:
- Helping others strengthens friendships
- Showing empathy
- Giving of your time
- Making friends across cultures
- Deep conversations
- Making friends with admirable people
Main Principles:
- People who help others suffer less from depression
- Empathy reduces prejudice and enables friendships across cultures
- Deep conversations make people happier
- Choose friends with qualities you admire
CHOOSING GOOD FRIENDS
How Can I Make Good Friends?
From: Questions Young People Ask: Answers That Work - Volume 1
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Key Criteria for Good Friends:
- Have admirable qualities
- Live by praiseworthy standards
- Have a positive influence on you
Key Questions to Ask:
- Am I nervous friends might pressure me into wrong actions?
- Am I reluctant to introduce friends to my parents?
- Do I change how I dress, speak, or act around them?
- Are they levelheaded and empathetic?
Do I Need Better Friends?
Publication: Awake! Magazine - 2009
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Main Principle:
"The one walking with the wise will become wise" (Proverbs 13:20)
Your friends have a powerful influence on the attitudes that develop in your heart.
Three Ways to Keep Good Friends:
- Be a good listener (Philippians 2:4)
- Be forgiving (James 3:2)
- Give them space (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)
Choose Your Friends Wisely
From: Enjoy Life Forever - Lesson 48
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Key Topics Covered:
- Why choice of friends is important
- How friends influence us
- Spiritual discernment in choosing friends
- Long-term impact of friendship choices
How Can We Choose Good Friends?
Publication: Awake! Magazine - 2011
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Key Topics Covered:
- The influence of friends on personal development
- Peer pressure and imitation
- The need for careful selection
- God's example of choosing friends carefully
Main Principle:
Friends have a powerful influence on the attitudes that develop in our hearts. Most people like to be accepted, which makes them imitate those around them.